Monday, May 19, 2025
Ode to Art in the Age of Ai.
Monday, October 23, 2023
I love you. HB Zane.
Today is my son’s birthday. A son. A good son.
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What makes a good son?
A person who is kind and considerate.
A person who is fearless.
A responsible person.
A caring person.
A person who constantly looks out for his loved ones, his friends, and whoever he cares to look out for.
A person who does the right thing whenever and wherever.
But Good Sons are aplenty in this world.
When a good son becomes your best friend, now that’s special. Really special.
And that’s what my son is to me. My best friend.
What makes a best friend?
A person who spend time with you no matter where or when.
A person who reaches out to you ever so often just because.
A person you’re not afraid to be naked with in body and soul.
A person who you can be totally honest and share feelings with.
A person who you can get sloshed or stoned out of your mind with.
A person who will hang out and wait around for you while you do silly things, running around looking for antiquities, experiences or an expedition to absurd places like Cupertino. Or to patiently be present while you slowly squander time in museums & art galleries.
A person who shares your taste in music and food.
A person who inspires everyone in his life by setting standards that lifts everyone and everything around him.
An artist who is kind and compassionate with people yet strict and stoic with himself in maintaining astronomical aspirations in his craft.
Such a person is rare. And that person brightens up everyone’s life.
What joy it is to have a good son as well as a best friend.
Happy Birthday My Son. My Best Friend.
What you do inspires me to no end.
Since you were little you were a bright happy spark reaching for the stars.
That’s where you are from and what you’re made of. Stars and Stardust.
You can be anything you want to be.
But you already know that.
Proud and so happy for you. My Man.
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Life's like that. |
Here’s a song I have been waiting and yet to dedicate to someone. I am so happy I get to dedicate this song to you.
Just know that the music you’ve appreciated and shared with me keeps me company for many nights on my balcony. And tonight I’ll be partying like never before to all the music we love and share.
Queen kicked off tonight’s party. My favourite rock band which I’m sure is one of yours.
Here's one more...
Enjoy your day & everyday son.
P/s. And this one of course is gold;
Pp/s; To get the full picture, read my previous post for you on "Music is the sound of emotions"
Monday, June 14, 2021
I love you. The Invitation #5
The Joy.
This chapter explores joy. And sharing it.
Why is it often hard for us to choose joy, even in moments when there are no painful circumstances in our lives? Sometimes we simply do not know how. Many of our secular rituals of celebration and relaxation involve moving away from what is- numbing out, if only a little, with drugs or alcohol. As one of my students once said, "We don't seem to know very much about how to lighten up without numbing out." Music and dance are obvious exceptions to this, but in our culture we are too often only spectators and not participants in creating and moving to the sound of celebration.
I want to cultivate ways of celebrating joy in my life and I want to recognise and savour the moments of joy that come. I want to enjoy the full variety of pleasures life holds, even when some of those joys appear to others to be incompatible and contradictory.
"I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own,
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your
fingers and toes
without cautioning us to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human."
~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer
So get up and dance.